I remember a while ago in a Facebook community, I saw a brand-name bag gift that my mother gave her at the auction.
The following envious of the mother's message to change her husband, slipping these messages is always very funny
Some people also answered that "other husbands are always better."
correct! Have you found out? Sometimes my heart will silently admire other people's husband... How can I help cook?
Why do other husbands get up in the middle of the night to help take care of children? Why do other husbands spend time dating their wives?
Why are other people's husbands so handsome? Why are other people's husbands so good? Why are other people's husband so considerate?
Then I turned to look at my husband silently... Why is my husband not like this?
Are you envious of someone else's life?
I remember that I once complained to my husband, "Why is that husband next door...? The husband who lives upstairs will also...? But you rarely...?"
This kind of complaint seems to be just sending out emotions, but my husband feels hurt.
In mathematics, the denominator is different. How can it be compared to the size? It is very unfair to him.
Most of the things that others present are beautiful, but the ugliest and darkest side of people is probably only the other half.
The so-called family has a difficult experience, there will be hard work behind the beautiful picture and the problems they have to face.
When we begin to envy the marriage of others, it is easy for ourselves to fall into an unsatisfied mood.
Then began to complain, thinking that they are unhappy and unhappy because they are harmed by each other.
Because he doesn't...he won't...he is not enough...
On the contrary, it means that the other party should of course make me happy. If he does not, I feel unhappy.
Your husband’s "good" will gradually be buried by you who thinks his "bad"
Your critique of him will affect your emotions and further influence your relationship.
His good for you or his efforts may be ignored in your eyes like the advertisement "This is not KFC".
But I still envy others? How to do it?
Just accept it! Accept him to have different personalities, traits, habits
If you want the other person to adjust, you can express it in a discussion rather than a complaint (don't communicate in an emotional moment)
What men need is to be affirmed and encouraged
When they are affirmed, they will be more motivated to change
So if he is willing to make a little adjustment for you, you need to greatly affirm him.
Let him know that you are very grateful to him, that you have seen his efforts and dedication, how important his influence is to you.
But don't expect too much from the other half, it will only make you more lost.
Finally, meditation 100 times
My husband is really great!!! XDDD